Friday, April 3, 2015

5 Random Friday Finds

Find No. 1


I found a great use for an empty whisky bottle.

Find No. 2


I found my way up a lot of stairs. A great cardio workout. Twenty minutes of steps burns 200 calories.

Find No. 3


I found a friendly shadow.

Find No. 4


I found a sad dog who thought if he laid on my lap I wouldn't leave him to go out of town. Sorry Scout it didn't work but you got to play with your friend Trevor instead.

Find No. 5

Photo Credit: Glen Huizenga

I found a girl on the edge of an exciting new adventure.

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Saturday, March 21, 2015

The Coffee Shop Chronicles - No. 28

I recently overhead my husband say to one of the salespeople that he manages "I find new prospects exciting and intriguing". He is in the janitorial and packaging supply business. He thrives on "cold calling". He thrives on getting his foot in the door of someplace new and hopefully walking away with some new business.

I also find new prospects exciting and intriguing. I am in the adventure business. I thrive on photographing new locations and getting my foot in some forbidden doors, hopefully walking away with an amazing photograph, or at least a good story.

When the opportunity presented itself to accompany my husband on a recent business trip I jumped at the chance. He had to go to my one of my favorites places on earth, Traverse City, MI, for a couple of days to work with his salespeople there. I would have the days to myself to wander and photograph to my heart's content, the nights we would be together, instead of having sad, lonely conversations on the phone.  There was one small glitch in this plan though, we were going to Traverse City via Toledo, OH, which makes absolutely no sense except that he had a very important meeting there. So we would be driving 3-1/2 hours southeast of our home to Toledo and then driving five hours northwest to Traverse City.

I have never been to Toledo so I was game even if it meant a long day in the car. There is something so exhilarating about crossing a state line, like I have suddenly found myself in a foreign country. Although it really doesn't look any different than the country I just left behind. Maybe it is seeing different license plates on the cars, maybe it is seeing new sights, I am really not sure what it is. I do know that I love seeing big cities from the interstate. There is always some cool old brick building that has my eyes glued to my window.


We arrived in Toledo at quarter to eleven. We were early for our lunch meeting with my husband's salesperson. So once we had found the restaurant where we were meeting him, Glen asked Siri for a list of coffee shops nearby. She came back with a few choices and Glen started reading them to me. I stopped him after the first one, Black Kite Coffee and Pie, I loved the name. I pick coffee shops based on name just the same way I pick books from the bookstore based on their cover. Sometimes they suck and sometimes they are well worth the chance.


The coffee shop was only a couple miles away from the restaurant so we followed Siri's directions to it. Let me just say that roundabouts are not in Siri's vocabulary so we had a brief struggle but managed to get back on course. Finally back on the road to the coffee shop, we drove past the most breathtaking old stone and brick churches. My favorite one was a cathedral constructed of the most amazing stone, complete with two tall, narrow towers in the front and a stone furnace stack in the back. The massive wood front doors topped by a round stained glass window reminded me of my trip to Paris in 2007 and seeing Notre Dame. The detail, the workmanship that went into that cathedral boggles my mind and gave me that fluttering feeling I get when I see things I want to photograph.


Siri guided us to the next block and sure enough there was the coffee shop on the corner. Glen was a little worried about parking our car around the side of the building where we he couldn't keep an eye on it. We may have passed a house or two that had disheveled front yards and boarded up windows, giving him reason to be concerned. But according to the sign at the corner we were in Cathedral Square, what could possibly happen. We were parked right next to a fairly new convertible VW bug. If I was going to steal a car I would pick the VW any day over our mud splattered, white SUV. I can see myself now, convertible top down, Scout in the backseat, his ears streaming behind him as we cruise down the country back roads.

Semi-convinced Glen put the car in park and prepared to get out. I, on the other hand was already out and striding confidently towards the coffee shop. I was in my element here, coffee shops and old brick buildings, what more could I ask for.


I opened the wrought iron outer door that could possibly be a security door and then turned the knob on the wood and glass inner door. We were warmly greeted by a young man in his mid-20's who reminded me of a shorter, dark haired Shaggy from Scooby Doo. I was very impressed with this young man, he took the time to explain each size drink and was extremely courteous throughout our entire encounter. I ordered my usual Chai and Glen ordered plain old black coffee. Since we were going to be eating lunch soon I wasn't going to get anything to eat, but Glen broke down and got a cookie for us to split. Let me say a jack hammer would have been handy when splitting it.


Glen had to pour his own coffee but young Shaggy delivered my chai to the table, how sweet. I opened my notebook and began to record my observations of the coffee shop. Quite a large space, with a bank of big windows letting in lots of natural light. Besides Glen and myself, there were two other customers in the coffee shop. A young woman to my left, who was busy typing away on her laptop and answering occasional incoming phone calls. Maybe this was her office away from home. There was also a young man with dreadlocks slouched on the couch near the front picture window. He had his laptop open but he seemed more focused on the music he was listening to in his ear buds.


My chai gone and satisfied with the observations I had recorded in my notebook I could hear the beautiful stone cathedral calling me. So I bravely told Glen where I was going, donned my coat and mittens and strode confidently out the door. Usually I get a vibe if a place seems creepy or not right. I didn't get any weird vibes here so I set off down the block to the cathedral.


The Cathedral did not disappoint me. Standing in front of those massive wooden doors all I could do was marvel at the architecture and record as much of it as I could with my iPhone.

Finally, hands freezing, I wandered back to the coffee shop. Glen was still working away on his laptop. He looked up as I took my coat off and his first question to me was "Did you look to see if the car was still there?" I replied "No, I did not, but I am sure it is".

The coffee shop was quiet at the moment and I noticed that Shaggy was leaning over the end of the counter looking at a magazine. I decided to stroll over to the bar stool at his end of the counter and ask him some questions. He didn't know me and I would never see him again so I had nothing to lose. As nice as he had been so far I was fairly certain that he wouldn't mind, and he didn't. I told him that I write essay pieces on coffee shops and wanted to ask him a few questions. He readily agreed. His name was Tylor (yes that is spelled correctly) and he had been working at Black Kite for a couple of months. He really likes working at Black Kite, he described it as a pleasant, relaxed environment. Much better than the bar that he use to work at.

I asked him about the area. He actually lives only a couple of blocks away. He said the neighborhood use to be home to doctors and nurses from the local hospital, which explains the grand designs of the old brick houses. Eventually the doctors and nurses moved to the suburbs and the area fell on hard times. He said the area is slowly making a come back one restoration at a time. Such a common tale of once grand urban neighborhoods. I thanked Tylor for his time and returned to our table.

It was time to leave for the restaurant and meet Glen's salesperson, so we bundled up and headed out the door, Tylor busy at the order counter with some new arrivals. Thankfully when we rounded the corner of the building our car was still there and so was the VW bug.

Thursday, March 12, 2015

5 Random Friday Finds

Find No. 1


I found beautiful early morning light on our walk downtown this week.

Find No. 2


I found a great place to kick up the Paisleys and enjoy the sunshine and 50 degree temperatures. Go away snow! I could have easily taken a nap here.

Find No. 3


I found a lovely little stream while trudging through the snow around a frozen pond. Always the adventurous one am I.

Find No. 4


Thanks to my friend Viv, I found the perfect online journaling app for all my Apple devices, Day One. 

Find No. 5


I found this one beautiful fading bloom in the boutique of yellow roses that my dad bought for my daughter while she was home on Spring Break. I loved the way the petals lay open around the center. I paired this bloom with a pair of vintage gloves I found in an antique shop last week, watch for these in future self-portraiture work. I also added an old vintage envelope I had in my ephemera stash. I don't do this kind of still life often but these pieces called to me to be paired together.

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Friday, March 6, 2015

5 Random Friday Finds

Find No. 1


I found sun on a cold winter afternoon hike.

Find No. 2


I found a beautiful flower and beautiful light at the local florists shop.

Find No. 3


I found an hour to take a bubble bath and shoot the prompt of the day "restful" for my self-portrait photography class.

Find No. 4


I found great north window light, delicious food and great conversation with my beautiful girl while she is home on spring break.

Find No. 5


I found a favorite new technique for self-portrait photography, focus and blur. I have a million ideas running around in my head for this technique.

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Friday, February 20, 2015

5 Random Friday Finds

I am taking Vivienne McMaster's Be Your Own Beloved self-portraiture class right now. This class is just the spark of creativity I needed this week. Faced with day after day of snow and cold, I needed something to make me pick up my camera. Each day we get a prompt to somehow include ourselves in the photo. Thursday's prompt was a photo walk around our neighborhood and include our hand in the shot to showcase things we found on our photo walk.

Did I mention earlier the snow and the cold...


Was she serious a photo walk...how was I going to do that? It was frigid outside and there is two plus feet of snow in my backyard. But...if you know me at all by now, you know that I refuse to be beaten. So I put on my big girl snow pants and went outside. 

Find No. 1


The first thing I found was the light right outside my side garage door covered with a dusting of snow and some lovely frost on the panes of glass.

Find No. 2


Next I found the pine cone my daughter had put out last year covered with peanut butter and birdseed. The peanut butter and birdseed are long gone, but the pine cone remains.

Find No. 3


I found rhododendron buds on my bush waiting for spring.

Find No. 4


I made a path to the wood pile.


The wood pile made me happy and so worth wading through the snow.


Find No. 5


Then I waded across the backyard to the compost bins.


It was cold and it was snowy, but you know what it was also a lot of fun, and I proved to myself that I don't have to let the weather stop me. 

My reward for completing my photo walk...


I got to snow blow the driveway. 


The downfall of glasses. After this I claimed my reward of a nice chai latte.


I hope everybody is staying warm out there.

Joining Kim for Friday Finds

Sunday, February 8, 2015

The Coffee Shop Chronicles - No. 27

There is joy in learning new things on a subject you are passionate about, for me that subject is writing. I am on a quest to close the gap between the writer I am and the writer I want to be. Part of that quest involves taking writing classes. I was fortunate enough to have taken two classes last year with Amanda Mays of ALM Writes that helped me finally establish a daily writing routine. A routine I had been wandering around avoiding for the past two years. My daily routine has brought such joy to my writing life.


But even with a daily writing practice the gap remains between the writer I am and the writer I want to be. In the on-going quest to become a better writer I started a new writing e-course this week taught by the very talented Jenna McGuggian. We are learning about writing with our heads, our hearts and all of our senses. Which are all great things until I tried to put all of these components into this week's coffee shop chronicle. Let me tell you, things quickly became a muddled mess. I was trying to find the most exquisite, mouth-watering description for my cinnamon twist. When I really wanted to say "it was a less-than warm, slightly misshapen cinnamon twist that had been delivered to the coffee shop in a  white cardboard pastry box sometime in the early morning hours. It was sitting on a small glass plate with a plastic, fast food style fork as its only companion." Maybe next week I will try to savor the flavor a little more. Or, maybe I should go back to that first coffee shop, the coffee shop where the chronicles began and get a freshly, in-house made, double chocolate muffin with little surprises of mini chocolate chips inside. The chocolate chips having been made all soft and melty by the fact that the muffin has been warmed and slathered with fresh butter.

After endless pages of sensory overload and mindless dribble I decided to rip all the pages that I had written out of my notebook and throw them on the cutting room floor. What you are getting now is written directly from my heart, the place I have always written from best. I will slowly continue to add in the other components we are learning. I will continue to enrich the story without overloading it with detail. The gap can't be closed in one day, one story, or even in one writing course. It is a process, and I know in my heart that the joy is in the process.

I arrived at the coffee shop at eight o'clock on the dot.

This seems to be the perfect time to arrive. I have missed the coffee to-go, before work people and it is a little early for the morning coffee date people.


I had been coveting this perfect writing spot all week as Scout and I walked past the coffee shop windows on our morning walk. It is the perfect little window nook with three sturdy, wooden bar stools. One bar stool for my writing bag, one in the middle for me, and one empty one for space. You know that no one, unless desperate, would sit that close to a complete stranger. I was counting on that fact and I didn't feel the least bit bad about it. I like to spread out when I do anything creative and this was the perfect amount of counter space.

The big window makes me happy. I love looking out at life going on downtown. Being a photographer, I liken the window to my camera view finder. I can frame the picture, or the story anyway I want to, choosing what I want to focus on.

As I settled with my cinnamon twist and my chai latte, notebook and my pen, I began the process of framing the individual stories.

First, my favorite story, the continuing story of the little china doll grandmother from last week. This little lady is a relentless walker. I don't walk downtown on the weekends, but last weekend my husband and I happened to come downtown to his favorite breakfast place. They serve the best restaurant version of a home-cooked breakfast, and cinnamon rolls the size of dinner plates oozing with frosting. As my husband and I were turning the corner onto the main street, there she was crossing at the intersection ahead of us. I pointed her out to my husband, thankfully he had already read the chronicle that week so he knew who I was talking about. Earlier this week I gave her a big hearty Good Morning at our first crossing of paths for the day. I think I scared the crap out of her, because since then she won't even make eye contact with me. But on a positive note, she doesn't move over as far on the sidewalk when she sees Scout and I coming towards her. I continue to make it my goal to have a conversion with her someday.


My next story involves a man and his dog. I have never seen them downtown before. They paused outside my window so that the man's medium-sized Chewbacca looking dog could lift his leg to pee on a tree. Now I am not a fan of this type of behavior. I have a male dog but I take him discreetly behind the buildings to a little square of grass (currently a patch of snow) to pee. Thankfully Scout also squats like a girl, due I think to his less than stellar hips. Anyway while Chewbacca was leaving a trail of yellow on the tree and at the base of the tree, I turned my focus to Chewbacca's owner. This man could have been a tree himself, he was dressed in a big, puffy brown winter jacket and atop his head sat a forest green, knit stocking cap. He stood just as still as a tree too, waiting while his dog relieved himself. Maybe he was embarrassed by Chewbacca's behavior? Well you know what then? You can change that behavior. You are the owner, you have control.

After the man and his dog moved on, a movement in the tree caught my eye. A long, shiny white ribbon wrapped around a tree branch. A string belonging to some child's lost ballon, the ballon now long deflated. I sat mesmerized by the swaying of that shiny white ribbon in the gentle breeze. I wondered about the child who lost that ballon. Was it their prized possession from a long, tiring day spent downtown with mom and dad? I am certain there were tears involved, there always are in these situations. Did Dad save the day by going to get another ballon for the young one? Or were they just as crabby as the child by this point in time and told the child that they should have held on tighter? Unfairly placing blame on that young child for something that was an accident. We will never know, but I am hoping there was the appearance of another ballon before the day was over.

My last story framed through the window was of a man in a bright red snowmobile suit digging through the trash cans. In his hand was a plastic bag, he was collecting remnants of uneaten food. Did you ever think that your half eaten hot dog would be another man's meal? Every town, every city has their underbelly, the thing they don't want exposed. The man in the red snowmobile suit is ours.

Friday, February 6, 2015

5 Random Friday Finds

Find No. 1


I love how finding a simple weed stuck in the snow can turn into a piece of art.


I could have played with this image for hours, but eventually you have to put down the iPad and walk away.

Find No. 2


I found some ice encrusted on the bowl of a metal drinking fountain.

Find No. 3


After an appointment downtown this week, I had to wander farther down the street to capture this vintage theatre marquee.

Find No. 4


I found a lone ice fisherman.

Find No. 5


My friend Jill and I had one of our adventure days last week Friday. We were also celebrating Jill's birthday. She should probably be scared when I text her and tell her to pack warm mittens, something to keep her head warm and boots. But being the true friend that she is, she just does it and doesn't ask questions. I love this picture of us because we are totally in the moment and enjoying a cold, snowy winter day at the beach.


This is what I made us do. We parked on the closed to traffic beach road, climbed over the guard rail, waded through the snow and beach grass, so I could get some photos of these ice bergs. Never a dull moment on our adventure days!

Hope you are having a great week!

Joining Kim for Friday Finds